Hello, girls! I don't even know how to present the whole situation; my...

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Hello, girls! I don't even know how to present the whole situation; my head is spinning. The triplets are in CE2 in France (akin to second grade), and until now, there were no problems, or at least none that I was informed about. There are no favorites among the children - NONE, but we don't neglect anyone either. Today, they came home from school and the eldest started crying, saying that her classmates are neglecting her and that the only people she talks to (at school) are her brother and sister. My twins will only start school this September, so she doesn't have contact with them there. She complained that her classmates laugh at her because her name is the same as the main character of the cartoons "Inside Out" and "Inside Out 2" (Riley). All five of them have now gone out with their father, and I'm at a loss for words. I don't regret naming her that; there were personal reasons, and they had nothing to do with the cartoon. I absolutely love all my children's names, and I don't even know what to say to her. Tomorrow, I plan to go to the school and talk to the teacher, but solving things at school is one thing, and protecting a child from hating their own name is another ?.

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Hello! I understand that this is a difficult situation for you. It's important to support your daughter and talk to her about how each person is unique and special, and that her name is a part of her identity that should not be changed because of others' opinions. Try to explain to her that it's important to be strong and confident in oneself, despite someone possibly not understanding or teasing her because of her name. Support her, talk to her teacher, and try to find ways to help your daughter feel confident and secure at school. It's important for her to know that you are always there and will support her in any situation. Good luck!
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It's possible as an option to change the name and definitely see a psychologist + change schools.
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azzz , She doesn't want to change her name; she likes it. I'm afraid that this might change if things continue this way. I'll talk to the teacher, and if nothing changes, we'll switch schools. I will definitely take her to a psychologist.
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Hello! Your daughter has a very beautiful name. Actually, all your children have beautiful names. They are suitable in France. Riley, Ryan, Raya... Caitlin, Kevin... Very beautiful and they complement each other. Change schools. Laughing because she has the same name as a character from some cartoon is complete foolishness. Riley is a common name in the USA and Europe.
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Deleted , We will definitely change the school. Thank you for the names! ☺️ We choose names for each pair of twins that start with different letters but sound similar to each other. For the triplets - R, for the first set of twins - K, we plan to name this set of twins with M, both of them. ?
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Deleted , Wow! Judging by the description in your profile, are you expecting twin boys? Are you planning to have more children in the future, with such luck for twins?
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Deleted , Yes, two boys!? And yes, we're planning for more? Finances and mental health allow it?
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Deleted , Wow, you really are a superhero mom)) Handling just one in a month is already quite something for me, definitely no kids in the near future, and here you are, eager to have twins... If every pregnancy is with multiples, as per your comment under another post, then after the fourth pregnancy that's 9-10 kids... Wishing you even more nerves and good luck!)))
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Deleted , Thank you so much! ☺️ You too! ?
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Здравствуйте! Я тоже тройняшка, и могу точно сказать, что подобная проблема(как общение лишь с братом/сестрой) - частая ситуация! Издеваться над ребёнком из-за имени - иррационально. Надеюсь, малыши пойдут в другую школу в следующем году ??
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Джульетта , Здравствуйте! Извините за такой нескромный вопрос, вы случаем не старшая тройняшка?)) больно напомнили кое-кого?
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Deleted , Ахахах, старшая? Я понимаю, меня часто сравнивают с Джульеттой Мадригаль??один из любимых мультиков ?Но, к сожалению, у меня два младших брата тройняшки, а не брат и сестра ?
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Джульетта , Если не личное и вы не против, можно как-то связаться с вами?) хотелось пару вопросов спросить, очень уж интересно, а тут написать не получается ?
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Джульетта
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Deleted , У меня есть инстаграм - Juilliet.m?
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Джульетта , Здравствуйте! Подруга писала вам в инсте три дня назад. Можете ответить, если вам несложно?
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Deleted , Здравствуйте! Видела ? Я, ответила час назад ??
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