I'm having my first pregnancy and terrible toxemia I can't eat anythin…

I'm having my first pregnancy and terrible toxemia I can't eat anything, I can't even drink water. The midwife when I gave birth I didn't lie down all the time the lights were running and you lay down you lazy mom you don't have anything to teach you go work! My things with hands my stuff is soapy it makes me sick she doesn't understand all the time not satisfied. In the evening this is ready this is ready although he knows that I have toxemia. The husband never protects me. I am very tired for a month I haven't eaten normally I lost 7 kg. Only parents give money go eat at a restaurant if you can't eat home food.