Girls, reason with me. Maybe I'm wrong... The husband loves to cling …

Girls, reason with me. Maybe I'm wrong... The husband loves to cling to a bottle when he's really bad (upset, angry and so on). In general, "he washes" emotions. This happens not often, but it really bothers me. My own family has an alcoholic father whom I don't communicate with for this reason, and now my husband started acting... Doesn't raise his hand at me, doesn't change when he drinks, but I have disgust towards alcohol. We agreed that he would stop doing this. And then, when he learns to control his emotions, we can discuss it. As a result: bought a expensive bottle of cognac for the son's birth, drank in