Oh, I thought it wouldn't affect me, but... Damn, I'm a mother of four…

Oh, I thought it wouldn't affect me, but... Damn, I'm a mother of four kids, almost 40 years old, my eldest children are 18-19, all grew up healthy, smart, well-mannered, in general, I consider myself a good mother. But... you know what? When I have a baby, there are people who think I need to learn how to raise a child. Especially this phrase makes me happy: "Don't hold him/her on your hands, teach him/her and you won't be happy yourself." ???. Yes, I'm happy, I'm happy that at 40 I have a little one, I